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Safe Ways to Oral Sex

Kamis, 16 Juli 2009

Safe Ways to Oral Sex

While there have been many warnings about oral sex, for example, can cause the spread of virus diseases, people are not directly reduce the activity of this type of sex. Known, many couples consider oral sex more than provide a sense of intimate intercourse its own. Clitoral stimulus directly on the oral sex cause a woman more easily reach the orgasm, compared with doing the intercourse. On the other hand, men also get a more intense pleasure with oral sex.

But for many other couples, oral sex is a challenge. But oral sex can not happen if you are still timid with the pair. To be able to do so, we must first feel comfortable with the Mr. P. Meanwhile, when you become a party to receive "service", you should also feel comfortable with Ms V on your own. If not comfortable, we will not get the desired comfort, satisfaction or provide the expected pair.

"Oral sex is the one of sexual activity the most erotic, exciting, and satisfying, you can do," said Dr. Ava Cadell, sex therapist and author book The Pocket Idiot's Guide to Oral Sex. "That is one part that needed to be great lovers. So if you want one, while others decline, it can cause the relationship to become distracted."

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), approximately 90 percent of men and women perform oral sex once in their lives. Indeed, does not mean they still do it routinely, or whether they direct it. Why have some of them do not even want to try it, do not feel worried with their hygiene. Others do not like the "taste" (although there are now feeling a variety of condoms). The other more concerned with not able to do both. The rest simply say that the place on the face so close to the body that are usually covered is not fun.
Mutual compromise

We do not need to do something that is not convenient for us, but no one we do something to overcome the obstacles that limit the enjoyment you and a partner, is not it? You believe or not, almost all of reluctance about oral sex that can be overcome with a simple explanation.

"If you question the cleanliness, you can take a bath first with your partner," says Ian Kerner, author book She Comes First and He Comes Next. "If a man does not like oral sex for partners, he needs to know that the vagina has a self-cleaning ecosystem," he explained. On the other hand, he added, if a woman combining oral sex with manual stimulation (with hands) to avoid the feeling you want to choke, and ask not to encourage spouses in too, they can still compromise. You only need to do it slowly.

Another thing you need to know, the party receiving oral sex should not be the only one who enjoyed the session. When you squeeze Mr P is, and see how he is enjoying, but also provide the stimulus for you. Even if you like to give oral sex for couples, but you do not like it is not a problem. However, you can try to identify the causes. Because, "People who do not enjoy oral sex usually have a psychological barrier," said Dr. Cadell.

Cause, because one party was forced to do so. For example, women who are not related mood for sex, forced to give oral sex (fellatio or) to the spouse. Or, men who "committed" to give oral sex to spouses reach orgasm, when-again-spouses are not to touch, or feel uncomfortable to do so.

If you make a compromise, a compromise should be approved in both parties and mutually satisfying one another. "Do not let fear determine what you should do, except not fun like this," said Dr Suggestions Sharna L. Striar, a certified sex therapist in New York City. "Oral sex should be fun, to provide variation, and increase enjoyment. But as this is very intimate, you must communicate with each other about what is desirable and necessary."

Make sure you also have to communicate to do before!

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